I’m a Work of Art.

Blog | January 29, 2015 | By

“Every part of me is beautiful, I’m a work of art. A Masterpiece”

-Jazmine Sullivan


I every so often feel the need to remind you all as well as myself that us ladies, we run shit. Whatever you want you can get. I promise. If it’s a new job, car, man, house, whatever. If you set your mind to predator mode and chase that prey, it’ll be yours before you know it. But, how can you rightfully distinguish what’s worth being chased? I don’t know. How does an original plan to achieve something or someone evolve into a hunt of desire? Is this transition a good or bad thing?

My opinion, it can be a good thing or a bad thing depending on the situation and circumstances. For instance, when setting a plan at the end of the year to have a new house and car while you’ve just been hired at a new job. That newness of employment will motivate your drive to kick your plan into making it easier to achieve, however you have to remember to prepare for a few fuck ups as well. We’re human, shit never goes as planned, and you know that. If you mentally and financially prepare yourself for any setbacks, you’ll save yourself before your boat even receives the hole. On the other hand, my mindset can backfire if you try to use the same tactics trying to score a man because if they even feel like they are being mapped into a plan or game of throne they will curve your ass before the blink of an eye and you’ll never see it, leaving you green. No one wants to look green right? Right! So what do you do? I don’t know. I can’t truly blog my strategies but please feel free to email me with any questions and I’d be happy to be your love spirit guide. Lol ok back to my point!

When setting a plan of attack for a man you’re interested in first, make sure he’s interested in you as well. Nobody wants to be friend zoned by a man because we are the originators of the friend zone. Listen ladies, we don’t get zoned we are the zoners honey. Second, figure out his goals and interest and ask him my favorite question “Where do you see yourself in 5 years?” Ladies, please word that question JUST like I worded it. Don’t ask him “Where do you see us in 5 years?” because then you may find yourself looking dumb. Don’t fully jump out there if you haven’t established some sort of interest that leads to wording shit as “us”. I think “us” should only be used once we are legit together. Third and last but not least, follow all intuition. Don’t let lust and infatuations clout your thoughts. This can easily be done with frequent conversing through text and sex. Now I’m one who live for both but you have to be careful they don’t lead you off your pathway of approach. Every man doesn’t deserve sex ok. OK! ok… Let me say it again, every man does not deserve your vagina! Remember, thats your brain of authority so once you grant permission to enter, things can tend to get sticky. lol literally. But in the event that you don’t know what to do, remember what I said from start. You run shit. Ok I’m done talking, I hope you get my drift.

-Sandrea Lanay


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    March 10, 2017

    That inishgt’s just what I’ve been looking for. Thanks!

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